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Ellen Louise Axson Wilson
1860-1914
[Woodrow Wilson]
Biography: "I am naturally the most unambitious of women and life
in the White House has no attractions for me." Mrs. Wilson was writing to thank President
Taft for advice concerning the mansion he was leaving. Two years as
first lady of New Jersey had given her valuable experience in the duties
of a woman whose time belongs to the people. She always played a public
role with dignity and grace but never learned to enjoy it.
Those who knew her in the White House described her as calm and sweet, a
motherly woman, pretty and refined. Her soft Southern voice had kept its
slow drawl through many changes of residence.
Ellen Louise Axson grew up in Rome, Georgia, where her father, the
Reverend S.E. Axson, was a Presbyterian minister. Thomas Woodrow Wilson
first saw her when he was about six and she only a baby. In 1883, as a
young lawyer from Atlanta, "Tommy" visited Rome and met "Miss Ellie Lou"
again -- a beautiful girl now, keeping house for a bereaved father. He
thought, "what splendid laughing eyes!" Despite their instant attraction
they did not marry until 1885, because she was unwilling to leave her
heartbroken father.
That same year Bryn Mawr College offered Wilson a teaching position at an
annual salary of $1,500. He and his bride lived near the campus, keeping
her little brother with them. Humorously insisting that her own children
must not be born Yankees, she went to relatives in Georgia for the birth
of Margaret in 1886 and Jessie in 1887. But Eleanor was born in
Connecticut, while Wilson was teaching at Wesleyan University.
His distinguished career at Princeton began in 1890, bringing his wife
new social responsibilities. From such demands she took refuge, as
always, in art. She had studied briefly in New York, and the quality of
her paintings compares favorably with professional art of the period.
She had a studio with a skylight installed at the White House in 1913,
and found time for painting despite the weddings of two daughters within
six months and the duties of hostess for the nation.
The Wilsons had preferred to begin the administration without an
inaugural ball, and the First Lady's entertainments were simple; but her
unaffected cordiality made her parties successful. In their first year
she convinced her scrupulous husband that it would be perfectly proper to
invite influential legislators to a private dinner, and when such an
evening led to agreement on a tariff bill, he told a friend, "You see
what a wise wife I have!"
Descendant of slave owners, Ellen Wilson lent her prestige to the cause
of improving housing in the capital's Negro slums. Visiting dilapidated
alleys, she brought them to the attention of debutantes and Congressmen.
Her death spurred passage of a remedial bill she had worked for. Her
health failing slowly from Bright's disease, she died serenely on August
6, 1914. On the day before her death, she made her physician promise to
tell Wilson "later" that she hoped he would marry again; she murmured at
the end, "...take good care of my husband." Struggling grimly to control
his grief, Wilson took her to Rome for burial among her kin.
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